Hi everyone, one more reminder about our upcoming Book Club Discussion on ALL WE EVER WANTED by Emily Giffin on Thursday, September 12th at 8 PM Eastern. We are really looking forward to a thought-provoking discussion on a very interesting topic. And its a relatively quick read, so if you haven’t started it yet you still have time.
And here is something else that will add more to our discussion last week: As Sue York has been preparing for the discussion (thank you Sue!), she came across some very interesting information about a young 14-year-old boy, Royce Mann, who wrote and performed a poem he wrote, “White Boy Privilege”. It is so pertinent to the story, and so impactful as you listen to it, I really suggest you go to the link at the bottom of this page, and listen for yourself. Here is what Sue found:
A young boy takes the stage. In a shaky voice, he says, “My name is Royce. My poem is titled, ‘White Boy Privilege.’”
The video of the 14-year-old student’s slam poem at his school has gone viral in the midst of heated national discussions regarding race and privilege.
Performed at a slam poetry competition in May at The Paideia School in Atlanta, Royce Mann’s winning poem offers a reflection on the privilege he feels he has been automatically awarded as a result of his being white and male.
His piece begins with a lamentation: “Dear women, I’m sorry. Dear black people, I’m sorry. Dear Asian-Americans, dear Native Americans, dear immigrants who came here seeking a better life, I’m sorry. Dear everyone who isn’t a middle or upper-class white boy, I’m sorry. I have started life on the top of the ladder while you were born on the first rung.”
As Royce continues, he acknowledges the barriers that those of other genders, races and classes must confront that he is fortunate enough to avoid: “Because of my race, I can eat at a fancy restaurant without the wait staff expecting me to steal the silverware. Thanks to my parents’ salary I go to a school that brings my dreams closer instead of pushing them away.”
Royce concedes that, if given the choice, he would not choose to trade places with anyone else because “to be privileged is awesome.”
As he reads his poem, his voice grows louder and more impassioned. “It is embarrassing that we still live in a world in which we judge another person’s character by the size of their paycheck, the color of their skin, or the type of chromosomes they have.”
Race, class, gender
“It is embarrassing that we tell our kids that it is not their personality, but instead those same chromosomes that get to dictate what color clothes they wear and how short they must cut their hair. But most of all, it is embarrassing that we deny this. That we claim to live in an equal country, an equal world.”
His poem has captured the attention of many who applauded him for being “woke,” or conscious of the ways in which racism, sexism and classism affect society. Among those is “Empire” star Taraji P Henson, who tweeted, “#TheTRUTH GOD BLESS THIS LITTLE BRAVE ANGEL!!!”
In an interview with HLN, Royce and his mother, Sheri Mann Stewart, explained that he was staying focused on getting his message spread.
Royce said that he knew about white and male privilege for most of his life, but never knew how prevalent it was in society until he attended a class called “Race, Class and Gender” that opened his eyes.
But he refused praise, claiming, “I’m not the hero of this movement or anything. There are definitely a lot of people who’ve done a lot more than me. I’m just trying to do my part.”
Royce named Alton Sterling’s son, who recently called for protests to be nonviolent after the shooting of his father and subsequent ambush of law enforcement in Dallas, a source of inspiration.
‘His thing’
“Alton Sterling’s son was really inspiring. This soon after losing his father to police brutality that definitely shouldn’t have happened, to tell protesters to act in a nonviolent way.”
But Royce has also faced backlash, to which he said, “There are definitely people who do deny that white privilege and male privilege exist.”
“Some people feel that I’m ashamed of my race. … In reality, I’m not ashamed at all. Nobody should be ashamed of their race because that’s an uncontrollable thing. I was born this way and nobody should be ashamed of that.”
He said he wanted “to reach the people who are ready to have an open dialogue about this. … If they say, I disagree with you and here’s why, I would be more than willing to discuss it with them.”
Royce’s mother said she didn’t help him with his poem at all. “It was totally his thing. I thought he might get some mixed reaction … but never wanted to discourage him from doing it.”
The video shows Royce receiving rousing applause after he called in the poem for change and more equality: “I get that change can be scary, but equality shouldn’t be. Hey white boys: It’s time to act like a woman. To be strong and make a difference. It’s time to let go of that fear. It’s time to take that ladder and turn it into a bridge.”
The teenager told HLN he thought the day will come when that ladder will turn into a bridge.
“It will be a long time, but I think within my lifetime, we’ll see a lot of progress.”
Watch YouTube video of Royce performing his poem (Note: Video contains profanity)
See you next week,
Liz
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